Do less, be more. Identification with thought is the cause of compulsive behaviour called love. There is absolutely nothing that needs to be thought, said or done in response. All decisions are made in present, when it comes to it we will follow the impulse. This impulse is one of inner peace, not the state of ignorance, proving right to another. Thought is like a seductive lover, who's goal is to grab our full attention. When we are following the veil of thought we are lost in a dream.