Break ups, are hard for some people and easy for others. To all of those guys out there. If you want to keep a girl, don't be a control freak. Let her be free. Of course hang out with her, but not twenty four seven. If you love her and you want to tell her wait at least two weeks. If you want to hold her hand, then wait at least a week. Don't move to fast because you will ruin it. If anything let her make the first move. Or she will break your heart, before you can heal hers.