You have to love what you do. Because in the end it all comes down to you. You have to mute everyone else's thoughts and opinions and listen to yourself, because you know yourself better than anyone else does. So when you need to make an important decision, choose what you want, because that is what YOU want, not what someone else wants. If someone tries to make decisions for you, don't let them. Do what you love, and don't let anyone get in the way of something you love.