I don't get why some people, usually women, tend to assume that "perfect" friends/boyfriends are the people who constantly put up with their shit.
As an exercise, I'd recommend to anyone who holds this sort of view to apply it to themselves. Be trustworthy, loving, caring. Don't be selfish, be attentive and comfort your friends when they're down, put up with them when they're being unreasonable and straighten them out when they're wrong.
I'm sure relationships would be much more fulfilling if everyone who expected such special treatment followed those rules.