Reverse the order. The way suggested is the oppposite of what is unually needed. One must first keep one own's heart in check, and looking for the good in all. To act without consideration, especially towars others, is rash. A brute will act first. a mensch acts respectfully, after consideration and once his own heart is limited by learning from the good. In any case, the ordering must be appropriate to the circumstances. Be a man of peace, and love for all, and only then seek to correct others -- if that is necessary.